"When You Can't Receive"

It was beautifully wrapped in special purple crepe paper with lavender ribbons cascading off the top.

It was obvious that Kathy was taken back when she saw it. What few would have known was that secretly she felt a little shameful at receiving the gift.

She later told me that as she received the gift, her instant thought was “Why would this person even be giving me a gift? Let alone spent time to make sure that the gift was perfectly wrapped?”

Kathy was discussing all this with me because she wanted to understand why she was automatically suspicious of such a generous act.

Kathy’s reaction wasn’t because she didn’t trust the giver, after all the person giving her the gift was someone she would trust with her life. No, this had nothing to do with anyone else. This had to do with Kathy. These feelings were all about how Kathy felt about herself. And the irony was that, to the outside world, Kathy is a strong, confident and successful woman.

“Giving without being willing to receive is not giving at all.” ~Dõv Baron…

Like Kathy, whatever you believe you are (or are not) capable of being—whatever it is—the freedom to live your dreams (or not) stems from your unconscious beliefs. Cumulatively these unconscious beliefs make up what I call your “Unconscious Deserving.”

As I just said, your Unconscious Deserving is a result of a set of beliefs. What is worth noting is that this set of beliefs is very old; chances are that you got most of them before you even knew they were beliefs.

This means that they have been held in your unconscious without question; they are beliefs that you weren’t even aware you had. Unconscious Deserving is a set of beliefs that tell us what it is that we deserve, or don’t deserve, and what’s more you’ve held these beliefs without question, up until now…

Stay with me here because this doesn’t mean that every one of these beliefs is crap.

You might have some good and helpful unconscious beliefs like”I deserve financial security” or”I deserve a good and relationship.”   On the other hand, they can and often are more dis-empowering and harmful like “I never get a break” or “No one could ever love someone like me.”

Now before you run off to grab a Black and Decker to start drilling into your head to remove these crappy briefs, it’s worth remembering that, for the most part, all this is going on at the subconscious level. What that means is that even though you are saying to yourself this doesn’t make sense, that you are a kind and giving person who does deserve good stuff, your unconscious could be saying something else altogether. Whatever it is that we unconsciously believe we deserve is what is being fed directly into our lives, causing us to get exactly what it is we believe we deserve.

“In Life You Don’t Get What You Deserve, You Get What You Believe You Deserve at an Subconscious Level!” ~ Dõv Baron…

In fact, as much as many people want to believe in the magical properties of this or that, your “unconscious deserving” influences what you can and cannot attract in life.

In fact if this is the case, it doesn’t matter how hard you work towards something—you may even be pushing it further away—because  the resonance of old beliefs held within unconscious deserving can trump your conscious efforts in the long run. I talked this in a previous article here called Conscious Vs Subconscious Poop

The cool thing is that when you begin questioning your beliefs, you are inadvertently questioning the level of unconscious deserving and, as a result, you begin attracting something different into your life. As you begin questioning those unquestioned beliefs, you are beginning to shake the foundation of your old life. In doing that, your inner quantum genie starts to bring you very different things!

“Who you were yesterday is ONLY who you were yesterday. Today you can choose who you will be tomorrow.”

Recognize that, and you take back the reins that determine where you are going and when. Recognize that and you are back in control of your destiny because you know that you can change your beliefs, which changes your unconscious deserving, which changes your resonance, which changes what you attract into your life.

So how do you change your unconscious deserving?
Here’s a four step way you can begin making changes today:

1. Get out a pen and paper and start writing down the areas of your life that are not working at optimum
2. Begin by writing down, (this must be uncensored) any belief you MIGHT have about that part of your life
3. Find someone, who has success/massive joy in that area and interview them. Discover what their beliefs are about whatever it is you are struggling with.
4. Be willing to adopt some of those more empowering beliefs

oh and 5, this is a bonus: Get your butt in the seat at “Claim Your Competitive Edge” It will rock your world it will shatter many of those old crappy beliefs!

Remember, the beliefs that form your unconscious deserving feed into your resonance attracting to you what you want—and what you don’t want —in your life.

You can have the life of your dreams. The only thing holding you back is YOU!
Come to the edge, let’s fly!

Claim Your Competitive Edge

Live with courage,

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There this technique and that technique and yet the success level of the folks using them doesn’t seem to vary that much.

The main problem is that too many of these “techniques” are not much more than a white washed version of something that has been around for a very long time….

I think you may know exactly what I’m talking about:  You know as well as I do, it doesn’t matter how you attempt to apply some form of “positive thinking” to manifest your reality, it doesn’t work because there is a huge step missing.

We both know the experience of fighting with yourself, you want to do “it” you know it will be good for you, but that other part of you is telling you all the reasons you shouldn’t, bottom line, that part of you is SCARED!

The important thing to recognize is that when we speak of the mind, we are speaking of two parts, not one: the conscious and the subconscious.  There are two very essential qualities that distinguish these two parts.

First, the conscious mind is way slower than the subconscious mind; in fact, scientific research shows that the subconscious mind is not only way faster, it is over a million times more powerful than the conscious mind.

Second, neuro-scientists have shown that the conscious mind, as Einstein suggested, operates at only about five percent. That means that 95 percent or more of the time we run our lives from the automatic knee jerk re-actions of the subconscious mind’s conditioning.

According to the brilliant Dr. Bruce Lipton in his book “The Biology of Belief” (2005), the subconscious mind processes 20,000,000 environmental stimuli per second verses 40 environmental stimuli interpreted by the conscious mind in that same second.

Think about this, it makes sense (and excuse my crassness, but I think it’s a really good model), “positive thinking” (i.e. affirmation) is kind of like Saran Wrap over dog poop.

It will cover it up, possibly disguise the smell, however, it won’t get rid of the “poop” itself—and that’s kind of what affirmations and positive thinking do. They appear to cover “it” (the unconscious issue) up, but they don’t deal with “it.”

That being said, until you deal with what’s underneath, “it” doesn’t go away and nothing changes. And because it’s what’s under the Saran Wrap (In the subconscious mind) that determines the other 95% of what’s showing up in your life your QRF draws to you whatever it draws to you because of what’s underneath.

Makes sense, right?

Think about it, that’s powerful information, isn’t it? Now think about whom you need to share that with. I know that even as you read those words someone comes to mind right away, and that’s good because sometimes we need to share something in order to really get it ourselves. In fact, in order to assist you staying on track I’m going to ask you that question many times throughout this book.

(The article above is an except from Dov Baron’s Book: Don’t Read This…Your Ego Wont Like It available on Amazon.com and at http://DontReadThisBook.com/

With gratitude,

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What does it take to shift from feeling and experiencing financial panic to feeling and experiencing financial flow?

“I can still remember being a child hiding with my mom and siblings as the rent man would bang, bang, bang the door knocker…

Our hearts would race, afraid to so much as breath for fear of being heard.  Facing the rent man without the rent meant the potential for homelessness.”

You know what’s fascinating– my mother always made sure the rent was paid, even if it was late. We were never evicted or homeless, and yet for the first twenty plus years of my life at the end of each month, as rent day came approached I carried that childhood anxiety with me.

As many of you know, right now we are running a FREE tele-seminar series for our upcoming Quantum Wealth Mastery program which is taking place in Vancouver September 25-28th.

Even if you cannot attend the live event, let me encourage you to attend the tele-seminars. We’ve already had one, and the feedback was excellent and we have got two very exciting ones coming up.
There’s loads of great material in each of these tele-seminars. Material you can’t afford to miss.

What’s more is, if you are running some old crap about money in your head and the crap has got you feeling anxious, these tele-seminars will certainly help you get off that “highway to hell.

So, let’s start getting your financial vehicle turned around… and pushing you down the road at high speed to new and better beliefs about wealth. We’re going to do this by first examining the unconscious beliefs that may have been in the way of your abundance.

Remember I’m not going to get anything out of this, but it has the potential to turn everything around for you. So, please do yourself a favor. Get out a pen and pad and  answer the following questions.

Even if the one or more of the questions below don’t make sense right away, stay with it! The answers can help uncover the reasons why you aren’t experiencing the financial abundance you deserve. One warning:
Be Perfectly Honest!

• Are you rich because you have money or do you have money because you’re rich?

• Are you poor because you don’t have money or don’t you have money because you’re poor?

• Are you struggling with money and because of that money is struggling to come to you?

• Are you more committed to having to struggle more than you are committed to having money?

• What would money give you that you want?

• What would money give you that you don’t want?

• What does struggling financially give you that you don’t want?

• What does struggling financially give you that you do want?

Please remember, you can lie or tell the truth, it’s your call.
You can BS me or someone else, but ultimately you can’t BS yourself.

So, dig in, answer the questions.
I’m guessing you’re in for a surprise or two or eight. Enjoy the ride!

I look forward to your feedback.
Until next time, live with courage. Dov…

P.S. To register for those FREE tele-seminars go over to http://www.QuantumWealthMastery.com

P.P.S. Want to hear the last one?