Now, for many people these days that’s not big news . However, what you may not have thought about is the context of the word “everything” that means; every thought, every emotion and everyone of your beliefs boil down to, vibrating energy .

Everything about you and around you is at its core vibrating energy.

So how do you attract what you want? Well if you want more wealth in your life, then you must vibrate and resonate at the same frequency as the thing you want. That creates a match in resonance and when there is a match in resonance what you want begins to want you .

Keep that in mind:

You have to be in the same resonant frequency as the thing you want.

You have to be in the same frequency as the relationships , the situations , and the experiences that you want . If you are not in the same frequency as what you want, it won’t matter how much you visualize, affirm or hope — you won’t get it. In fact there’s a good chance that the more of that “stuff” that you do the more likely you are to end up with an abundance but it won’t be money , just frustration.

However, when you know how to be in resonance with what you want…

life becomes fully synchronistic.

The most successful people in the world know this . They are not luckier than you. And they don’t possess a special ability to “get connected” any more than you do. Yet, when you first get into resonance you (or rather your ego/mind) may not want to believe it . Very often the first time my students manifest greater levels of success than they ever dreamed possible, they say, “You know, Dõv, all these great things just keep happening for me and it seems like it’s coming out of nowhere .”

But guess what… It’s not coming out of nowhere.  Their resonance has changed!

Here’s where it all gets a bit tricky because too many people think getting in resonance is some magical formula that will erase the economic melt down they’ve been feeling.  It won’t, that’s not how it all works.

Here’s how it works: When someone manifest something in their lives it does not pop out of thin air. What has happened is at a mental, emotional and core level this person is resonating at a completely different frequency. They are now in resonance with what it is they want, and it’s building upon itself. They have created a synchronicity that brings to them more and more of what they are in resonance with.

But again, don’t get carried away with magical thinking. Those who are truly in resonance with what they want are not sitting around waiting for miracles . No… 

Those who really understand resonance are the ones who are the first to step up and take personal responsibility for creating the life of their dreams .

 

They are the ones who take the risks that others so quickly shy away from while waiting for a genie to appear.

Bottom line: If you want to manifest something into your life you must be willing to do whatever it takes to get it in your life. In other words you are willing to go for it even if it doesn’t manifest .

These are the truly successful manifestors because they can see that the universe does not manifest things out of wishes and pixie dust upon your request. They understand that what you get instead is opportunities, doorways that you must have the courage to walk through to claim what you want.

Simply put: In my experience:

manifestation is as much a result of the willingness to act out of courage and daring as it is any “secret”

Until next time, Live with Courage, Dov…

Let me ask you: When the door of 2009 opens will you be hiding in a corner afraid of what’s on the way? Will you be there with running shoes on ready to bolt into a new year? Or will you step over the line, feeling your foot come down into the certainty of where you will ride this Ox of a year, because you have, in advance, taken the time to decide the direction of your 2009 .

Almost everyone gets some level of excitement at the prospect of a New Year, (even if it’s just as a reprieve from the last one). However; entering into anything with merely “hope”, Is a lot less than a plan for success.

What are your Goals and New Year’s Resolutions for 2009 ?  Whether your goals and resolutions are in the areas of finances, health and fitness, career, or relationships, the question worth asking yourself is: Do you actually want to keep yours this year? What if there was a simpler, effortless way to do that?  What if it were as easy as listening to some CDs and writing down your goals? Would you do it?

Before you say it could not possibly be that easy, know this:

You’re Right!

It doesn’t matter how many times you put my Resonating Riches CD program , or EFM Audio Technology or for that matter any program into the CD player, just listening is not ever going to be enough!

But part of what gets in the way of people’s success is that they come to believe that accomplishing goals has to be hard, it has to hurt . However, as thousands have experienced before you, with the right guidance, nothing could be further from the truth.

Please keep reading to understand how and why…

I want to help you keep your resolutions this year and avoid the disillusion that comes from setting half-assed goals and resolutions that don’t really matter, and in fact stand in the way of your complete authentic and joyous success.

As I spoke about in my last post; it’s important to pay attention to our rituals . Much of what we do, we do ritualistically. We do things over and over again and we do them to invoke an outcome . Whether that outcome is a change in our mind state that leads to a hangover or one that leads to greater and greater levels of success , all rituals are about invoking a “preferred state change” either within ourselves or our reality.

There are personal and societal rituals that we make personal. One of those society rituals has been to set “New Years Resolutions .” The purpose of which has been to invoke a “preferred state change” either within ourselves or our reality.

Sadly, all too often many people think that their looks, talents and simply making the resolution will be enough to propel them to higher ground. All too often these are the people whose ”wishful thinking” will have them do little more than splutter over the starter line.

The fact is: Nothing is more common than unsuccessful individuals brimming with talent.

If you have ever set a New Years Resolution or you know people who have, you are probably wondering: Why do so many people fail when it comes to fulfilling their New Years Resolutions?

The #1Reason: First and foremost without even realizing it… Most people are setting goals and making resolutions that are not their own!

I can not make this more simple and I know it seems obvious: Whatever goals or resolutions you set for 2009 make sure they are your own!

Quite simply, take a minute or two and really question your goals and your resolutions… Are they really about you, (who you really are)?  Or are they the goals and resolutions you are setting in order to be liked a little more by your brothers, sisters, friends, bosses, peers, or even mom and dad?

(By the way, to your ego mind approval is golden, so anyone’s will do).

The fact is, anyone can come up with a set of goals and resolutions that sound right. But it’s worth checking with yourself to truly find out if they are goals and resolutions aimed at getting approval rather than truly making you happy.

If you are unconsciously setting goals or resolutions that are not in resonance with who you really are, you are likely to find a way to not reach them or at the very least sabotage the process of reaching them.

See for yourself..: A few years ago I was working with a guy we’ll call Paul. Paul at that time was a successful corporate Vice President , who had a goal to buy a particular model of a new Mercedes .

I helped him to get absolutely clear on the specifics of what he wanted: model, year, color of both the exterior and interior and many other details that would make it absolutely real for him. By the time we were done, he could describe the exact sound the air made as it left when the car door closed.

Paul’s ’goal’ was to get the car by March 1st. This was something that was a stretch, but with everything in place it was definitely doable.  March 1st came and went, as did the entire month, and then April and May. When I asked him why he thought he had not manifested what he wanted, he gave me a long list of what he called ‘reasons’ and I called ‘excuses’.

My statement to him was that ‘it’ (the car), clearly didn’t matter enough to him. If it did, he would have done whatever it took to have gotten the car. Paul wanted to argue about it, until I asked him the question I’m now asking you:

Who’s approval do you make up you will get by achieving this goal?

It was like I’d slapped Paul in the face with a wet cod . He was stunned by the list of names that fell out of his mouth. There was a guy at work who had made a snide comment about how he thought Paul was doing better than to be driving what he was presently driving. There was his dad, who had always wanted a Mercedes but had never been able to afford one. There was even some woman he had the hots for ten years ago; she thought Mercedes were sexy.

Do you get it?

Sure, Paul ‘liked’ Mercedes and he certainly wouldn’t mind driving one. But, in truth, there was no genuine passion there ; it was not something that mattered enough to him. The reason Paul didn’t manifest what he ‘desired’ was there was no personal juice to fuel what it would take to bring that thing into his life.

Paul, like most people, had unconsciously set a goal that was more about ‘what other people would think’ than it was about what he truly, soulfully wanted .

If you’re on a few “Self-Help” lists, you’re probably getting a lot of input on how to ‘properly’ set goals for 2009 . I am sure they are all full of great stuff, but here are the basics: It is important to have a goal written down. Goals in your head tend to mutate into things that, A) we will never reach or B) we’ll just settle for.

In the words of Mark Victor Hansen (co-author of the “Chicken Soup for the Soul” series)

“Don’t Just Think It, Ink It!”

Listen, this coming year, I predict , will be a defining year for so many people. I believe It will be a year where you will need a better plan, more commitment and a heck of a lot more flexibility . For that reason it is equally important to make your goals and resolutions totally and absolutely have deep personal meaning . When you make that goal or resolution, be specific!

Go into the details , get all your senses involved … What would it look like , sound like, smell like, taste like, feel like to touch , and most important of all what would it feel like, to have ‘it’ in your life?

Whether it’s a goal or a resolution, ask yourself:
• What would my life look like having met this goal/resolution?
• Having met this goal/resolution what do I hear around me?
• What do I smell?
• What is the taste in my mouth?
• What am I touching now that lets me know I have fulfilled my resolution?
• What does it feel like to know I have become what I have resolved to become?

Now that I’ve given you some of the reasons why so many people fail at achieving their goals , let’s get into the next powerful tip that makes achieving your goals and resolutions a certainty:

Take out a sheet of paper, (I find there is a deeper emotional connection when we write by hand).

Write down as many reasons as you can about “why” you deeply want this specific goal or resolution.

What is it that makes having this in your life so important to you?

If you can’t get emotionally charged by what it is you are going for, chances are you will find a way to NOT get it!

It is this directed emotion that sets up the quantum resonance wave that draws to you every opportunity to fulfill your desire . The drive to keep going, to accomplish your goal or resolution is not in the thing itself, it’s the “reasons why” that will power you through the obstac les, (and there will be obstacles, make no mistake).

So, whether it’s personal , business , health, relationship , make the goal specific, and emotionally charged , because that’s what creates compelling goals that pull you towards what you want and what you want towards you!

So having gone through this Resolution Blueprint let me ask you to remember:

Whatever you dream of having in life… more money, more romantic and fun relationships, a booming business or fulfilling career… whatever it is… start your journey today toward making your New Years Resolutions and Goals a reality in 2009.

Start now!

Take out your pen and paper and begin applying what I’ve given you in this blueprint that Makes Achieving Your Goals and resolutions a Certainty .

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I look forward to seeing you in 2009.

With Gratitude,

Dov…

I know that many of you who read my articles don’t live in the US and for many, where you live there is no such holiday as ‘Thanksgiving‘. However, where ever you are I am sending you my gratitude.

I know this article is a bit longer than usual but I think you will see that by investing a few minutes to read will prove well worth your time.

No matter what country we live in, right now let me ask you this:  

How much time do you spend in genuine gratitude?

On a daily basis most people you are bombarded: There seems to be a million new things to do every day and so you try and catch a little down time.  Maybe you turn on the telly only to once again be assaulted with the doom and gloom of what we are told is a failing economy.

Most of the time, most people run around like chickens with their heads cut off doing more and more, feeling less and less connected to themselves or anyone else. The result is that most people are running on empty!

In a crazy hectic world what can we do to fill up a little?

Right now let me challenge you to STOP and take a moment to become aware of the blessings in your life.

There is a wonderful ‘new’ movement of interest in manifestation.

Perhaps you have read about it in my books or have heard me talk about it either at a workshop or in a tele-program: Quantum Resonance energy is the necessary ingredient for manifestation.

Well, one of the most powerful quantum energies for manifestation is gratitude. 

Now please pay attention; by gratitude I mean genuine heartfelt, preferably eyeball-to-eyeball or at least heart-to-heart connection. In other words, delivered with real meaning rather than some perfunctory…”thanks”.

We live in a time of pusuing more and more, and there is nothing wrong with wanting more of your heart’s desires. 

However, recognizing what you have and genuinely appreciating it does not have to be built around the complacency of; ‘I don’t have the right to ask for more, I’m so much better off than those less fortunate’.

Think of all the things that go by each day that can so easily get taken for granted; the smile on a child’s face as they say ‘hello’ or ‘goodbye’ to you.

Getting a call from your partner, friend, sibling, or family member to genuinely ask how you are doing. Being able to breath, smelling the flowers or even coffee. How about, having the strength to do what you need to and desire to do.  Or knowing there is someone, somewhere who loves you.  Receiving kindness, whether it was a smile, food, a kind word, a gentle kiss, or even this article.

I’ve been speaking around the world to thousands of people for many years now and I want to stop and say:

This Thanksgiving I am grateful for you… Yes you!

You see I have a dream…

My dream is to raise consciousness. Now you may be saying; ‘what the heck does that mean’? Raising consciousness means being able to assist people all over the world in knowing that they are truly powerful, that you have the power to create the life that your heart and soul cries out for.

I am truly grateful to you because through you I get to live my dream, my purpose, my mission. You, my friends, spiritual family, students and unstopable team are the fuel that moves me forward. I know that I am the voice of something bigger than myself and you carry that voice to the world and in so doing, share in my mission, my dream, my purpose.  I am truly grateful because maybe, just maybe, I have had some influence in waking up your soul, in inspiring your heart, in letting you know you are truly magnificent!

I am grateful to you…You, who are committed to growth. You, who are no longer willing to settle for mediocrity. You, who stand up and fight to be free, even from the prison of your mind.

I believe that the education we offer at Baron Mastery Institute is a way out of the mental emotional jails we can lock ourselves in.

Thank you for inspiring me with your feedback, emails, phone calls, testimonials, courage, vulnerability and your stories of how your life has changed using the skills, tools and knowledge you received.

I love taking the time to read and hear them all. They are all fuel in my tank to keep going.

Your support keeps me going, keeps me believing we can raise the consciousness of this magnificent planet.

Thank you to my beloved bride, best friend and partner, the sweetness in my life and my guru of kindness, my inspiration: Renuka.

Each day I am grateful for her and for the work I did to clear my poop in order to attract this amazing woman into my life more than a decade ago.

Renuka, you are the light in my heart, my greatest inspiration and biggest supporter, you have held me when I could have been crushed and in that moment your love and strength kept me walking my path when I felt crippled…thank you!

I suggest that once a year: Take out your pen and journal and write a list of whom and what you are grateful for.

Once you have done that you can go and buy some thank you cards and write a note of gratitude, or at least send an email or make a phone call to these people. (I like cards because some people are uncomfortable taking in gratitude and nobody can interrupt or dismiss written words).

Someone said to me once ‘it must be wonderful to touch all these people’s lives’.  My reply was and still is that it is wonderful, however what is equally wonderful is that you touch mine just as much.

Thank you from the depths of everything I am and all I can become.

I look forward to meeting you for the first time or seeing you again soon.

         Remember, nothing can crush you unless you allow it…

       Hold on to your infinite strength that your soul possesses!

Your value far outweighs your circumstances.

With my love and sincere gratitude,

Dõv…

P.S. Leave me your comments in the comments box and If you found this message valuable, feel free to send it to a friend.

Is it possible to live a life that is Happy, Abundant and Successful in a time of “recession” or is that just a ‘new age’/Pollyanna form of denial?

To answer that question we would have to know what success is.  Is success measured by a better car, bigger home, more stuff?

I’m pretty sure that that if your reading this blog then you are likely to be the kind of person who would say “of course not”. However, you live in this world of ‘stuff’: So is there anything wrong with having stuff?

Right now take a moment, really let this soak in and see how it feels to you:

Stuff is stuff, it’s nothing more than stuff until you attach a feeling/meaning to it.

If you make more ‘stuff’ the only way for you to know you have success, then you become attached to the stuff because without it you will see yourself as a failure. This of course will bring up all kinds of fears and as I said in a previous posting “fear is a powerful force for manifestation”.

Here what you will want to let in: “We are not separate from each other“ this is not a theoretical ideology, it a fact proven time and again in the field of quantum mechanics. We, you, me, all of us contribute to a collective consciousness that in turn feeds back into each and everyone of us.  As separate as we tell ourselves we are, we are in fact: community.

Therefore if you want abundance, (please excuse my graphic metaphor) but… if you want abundance to flow into your life: Don’t pee into the drinking water!

Just like there is a constantly connected ecology to the resources of this planet that says if we pollute the water it effects everything that takes in that water. Every plant and insect that lives on the plants and every animal that lives on the plants and insects is affected and in turn whether we are aware of it or not so are we.

Just like that ecological cycle works in an up and down manner, there is also an ecology of consciousness… Every time we pollute the field of consciousness that we are all connected to with our anger, frustrations, hate and LACK,  we feed the quantum equivalent of toxic waste into the quantum field and the biggest of all emotional, mental toxic waste is the one all the others are disguising… FEAR.

So ask yourself if you are in the business of manufacturing fear for the mental emotional consumption. If not, you might want to think about what you truly want to be adding to the quantum pool we all mentally and emotionally drinking from.

I believe it was Franklin D Roosevelt who said: “We have nothing to fear but fear its self”

Fear is what puts us in recession. The more fear we run the more we close down the flow of abundance. This lack mentality pours into the quantum field that we all mentally and emotionally consume.

So my friends I say to you, think again, I challenge you to; think of all the abundance you already have in all its forms rather than just the form of stuff and return to gratitude.

Fear Is The Dream Killer…

and no economic ‘situation’ is worth your dreams. Live a life that is to be envied not for its stuff, but for its passion, its undying belief that “it is possible” and that you were the one who showed others that out on the limb is where the fruit is sweetest.

I look forward to your comments. With gratitude, Dov…