Do you have: Money Problems or Belief Problems about Money?
What does it take to shift from feeling and experiencing financial panic to feeling and experiencing financial flow?
“I can still remember being a child hiding with my mom and siblings as the rent man would bang, bang, bang the door knocker…
Our hearts would race, afraid to so much as breath for fear of being heard. Facing the rent man without the rent meant the potential for homelessness.”
You know what’s fascinating– my mother always made sure the rent was paid, even if it was late. We were never evicted or homeless, and yet for the first twenty plus years of my life at the end of each month, as rent day came approached I carried that childhood anxiety with me.
As many of you know, right now we are running a FREE tele-seminar series for our upcoming Quantum Wealth Mastery program which is taking place in Vancouver September 25-28th.
Even if you cannot attend the live event, let me encourage you to attend the tele-seminars. We’ve already had one, and the feedback was excellent and we have got two very exciting ones coming up.
There’s loads of great material in each of these tele-seminars. Material you can’t afford to miss.
What’s more is, if you are running some old crap about money in your head and the crap has got you feeling anxious, these tele-seminars will certainly help you get off that “highway to hell.
So, let’s start getting your financial vehicle turned around… and pushing you down the road at high speed to new and better beliefs about wealth. We’re going to do this by first examining the unconscious beliefs that may have been in the way of your abundance.
Remember I’m not going to get anything out of this, but it has the potential to turn everything around for you. So, please do yourself a favor. Get out a pen and pad and answer the following questions.
Even if the one or more of the questions below don’t make sense right away, stay with it! The answers can help uncover the reasons why you aren’t experiencing the financial abundance you deserve. One warning:
Be Perfectly Honest!
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Are you rich because you have money or do you have money because you’re rich?
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Are you poor because you don’t have money or don’t you have money because you’re poor?
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Are you struggling with money and because of that money is struggling to come to you?
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Are you more committed to having to struggle more than you are committed to having money?
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What would money give you that you want?
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What would money give you that you don’t want?
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What does struggling financially give you that you don’t want?
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What does struggling financially give you that you do want?
Please remember, you can lie or tell the truth, it’s your call.
You can BS me or someone else, but ultimately you can’t BS yourself.
So, dig in, answer the questions.
I’m guessing you’re in for a surprise or two or eight. Enjoy the ride!
I look forward to your feedback.
Until next time, live with courage. Dov…
P.S. To register for those FREE tele-seminars go over to http://www.QuantumWealthMastery.com
P.P.S. Want to hear the last one?
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“Leadership is about building fierce loyalty. Leadership is about courage. Leadership is about the willingness to make tough decisions. That’s what Full Monty Leadership is about and that’s what Dov Baron teaches. Dov knows his stuff and delivers it like a star!”
“Looking through the bookstore shelves and listening to all of the business gurus out there, we read and hear about a lot of trends in leadership. The only problem is that true leadership doesn’t follow trends.
Things that make you go Hmmm?
1:Rich because I have money.
2:Poor because I don’t have money.
3:Struggling with money as money struggles to come to me.This one got me.I’m constantly worrying about running out of money or not being able to afford some future bill or financial commitment.
4:Commited to struggle.That one goes with the above.I’m tired of it.
5:Money=Freedom+Excitement+Dream Cottage
6:Stress of losing it.This is profound.It appears that if I have enough money or don’t have enough money I’m worrying about it.Perhaps money isn’t the problem.I think this is bad programming I received growing up.”If you don’t pay close attention you will miss something and it will be your fault.You don’t want to miss out on your chance.”Thats a major sticking point for me becuse this is exactly what is happening in my life right now.
7:Anxiety.It seems I have it with money or without money.So again,is money really the problem?
8:The struggling financially gives me a big fat NOTHING.It seems to me from re-reading my responses there is a whole lot of NOTHING and many negatives which all SUBTRACT to NOTHING eventually.I’ve got to start adding.
Thanks Dov for the quiz.I’ve been brutally honest here and seeing it on paper and the screen is sobering.
Hey Pete,
Thank you for your wonderful candor, it is inspiring.
The only answer I will challenge you on, (Because I know you are a person who’s always willing to dig deeper) is your answer “nothing”. Human being don’t do anything without getting some psychological benefit. So, with that, I challenge you to look deeper and ask: What might emotional need might this be meeting?
With gratitude, Dov…
Oh I love a challenge! I will have to dig deep for this one.I’ll get back to you.
What might having nothing satisfy what emotional need?
As I dig deeper I’m running into conflicting feelings.
1:There seems to be this feeling of “I’m feeling sorry for myself.”There is a sad feeling in the pit of my stomach. I remember using this feeling once when I was younger. In grade school I was a trumpet player and in my first quartet competition we placed with a blue ribbon.A big deal was made out of this and we were asked to perform our piece for a large group of parents at our school.I can remember not playing the piece as well that night and feeling sorry for myself.When I did that and communicated it to my parents they took me out for something to eat even though I had already had dinner.You see I got something out of that.There are more of these things I know for sure.
2:There is this feeling of “I gave everything I had and I have nothing left.”There seems to be some kind of feeling of “You’re a noble person for having nothing”You know “some kind of hero”.
Dov,this is going to take me a lot longer than I even initally thought to get to the bottom of.Hope I’m on the right path.
You might find this interesting.While I was pondering these feelings the phone rang.It was the phone company offering me a much better deal on my phone bill than was available before at the same price as I have been paying.No BS here….that really happened!!!! I believe that was a sign that I am beginning to get myself unblocked.
THANKS DOV!!!!
In Gratitude
Pieter
Brilliant Pete! Brilliant. Remember my quote: “The truth hurts but it also sets us free”
As soon as you started to look into that place where you were getting an emotional payoff and deal with it… You start to get a healthy payoff instead.
You are definitely on the right track.
With gratitude, Dov…
WOW Pete…………. thank you again mate……………
You’ve opened my eyes to something I’ve never really thought of about myself, but if I’m honest, it is there…………. the “feeling sorry for myself” to get something I want…………… I’m going to look deeper inside myself about this…………. (I’ll let you know what I find, I’ll message you at BMU)
Thank You Dov………… I was just listening to podcast #17, and you talking about “emotional currency”, and while you were relating that to relationships, I made a connection about my “emotional currency” to money…………. lol………..
I’m noticing some big changes within me………………
It always helps when we ‘see’ below the surface of anything thta is goign on, and that goes double for ‘money’.
If a printing press started printing money in the middle of a forest, but there was no one there to pick it up and spent it in the Malls, is it REALLY money??
Looking forward to meeting you all at QWM.
Getting pumped as I ‘refine’ my plans for my time with everyone.
With Abundance,
Scott
I’m tuning into these tele-seminars and loved the first one.
Look forward to second one in a few hours.
Cool set of your questions. I going to challenge myself to set some time aside and answer them this week.
Great questions and thoughts to ponder Dov, I have worked on some of my beliefs consciously but I think that I need to dig deeper and address some unconscious negative beliefs about money so that is what i’m about to do! It’s amazing how long beliefs stay with us and how they are formed and engrained at such a young age.
Thanks for your enlightened wealth content! it’s always great!
David
Thank you for your feedback David.
I am delighted to have stimulated your mind to go deeper than the surface.
I know you’ve read my new book: “Don’t Read This…Unless You Want More Money”. Have you read: “Don’t Read This…Your Ego Won’t Like it!”? There are some really great exercises for examining and dealing with old limiting beliefs.
With gratitude, Dov…
What does struggling financially give you that you do want?
this really got me thinking…. struggling financially does absolutely NOTHING for me. All it seems to do is keep me restricted from achieving my best because of some false beliefs that I grew up with.
Hey Chris,
What you say would absolutely “appear” to be true. Unfortunately there is an underlying psychological principle that goes like this: Human being do not do anything without some level of a pay-off. Sometimes it’s obvious often it is not. The pay-off is usually emotional and therefore doesn’t make rational sense.
Dig deeper my friend: What might you be getting out of that situation that you want? Here’s a clue: What ingrained belief does it justify you keeping?
Thank you for your open sharing.
With gratitude, Dov…
I’m not getting anything out of this situation I create , it really isn’t helping me in any way. I’m struggling with finding the belief that is holding me back as well. I feel like it’s something in that I’m not old enough to value my time for what I feel it is really worth… when I do consultations, I don’t know how much to charge and I often under-value myself. What could I do to help change this? I appreciate you helping Dov 🙂
Like I said Chris,
This is not an idea, it’s a psychological principle.
Dig DEEPer and ask yourself what might this belief you are holding be giving you or proving?
Here’s a way to move forward…do you know of anyone else around your age whose time is being valued?
If you do then it’s not about age, it’s about the underlying belief you are holding.
With gratitude, Dov…
Dov, I’ve been reading the book and starting to realize more and more that I just have not been READY for the affluence to be mine. I know that there are plenty of people who are my age who’s time is valued at where I want my time to be valued so it isn’t my age, you are right. I’m working on changing the underlying beliefs as we speak. The exercises you provide in the book “Don’t Read This…Unless You Want More Money” seem to be having a profound effect on my feelings towards affluence. I’m excited about the new reality that you are bringing out.
The example that really clicked for me was the tuning forks being in resonance. No judgment just accepting and reacting, just like the universe. Powerful stuff man. Thank you so much
Hey Chris, I’m delighted that you are really getting your head and actions around the material…we’ve only just begun!
I saw the post you did about the Law of Resonance on your blog. Attempted to leave a comment 5 times however, kept getting an error message.
It’s so great that you now understand that the stuff you were running was just some old limited conditioning.
Keep spreading the word.
With gratitude, Dov…
That’s odd that it didn’t let you comment. I appreciate you taking the time to comment and read it though! It’s unbelievable how much abundance has always been here. I wish I would have met you a few years ago so that I would have found this out when I first got started in business. Oh well, at least I’m learning it now 🙂
I’ve been telling people about the book and reviewed it on amazon and will be writing a blog post on it relatively soon as well. Hopefully this will spread the word even more for you!
Thanks for all the help. I can’t wait to keep learning from you, Dov. I appreciate the help so much.
Great questions and thoughts to ponder Dov, I have worked on some of my beliefs consciously but I think that I need to dig deeper and address some unconscious negative beliefs about money so that is what i'm about to do! It's amazing how long beliefs stay with us and how they are formed and engrained at such a young age.Thanks for your enlightened wealth content! it's always great!David
Thank you for your feedback David. I am delighted to have stimulated your mind to go deeper than the surface. I know you've read my new book: “Don't Read This…Unless You Want More Money”. Have you read: “Don't Read This…Your Ego Won't Like it!”? There are some really great exercises for examining and dealing with old limiting beliefs.With gratitude, Dov…
What does struggling financially give you that you do want? this really got me thinking…. struggling financially does absolutely NOTHING for me. All it seems to do is keep me restricted from achieving my best because of some false beliefs that I grew up with.
Hey Chris,What you say would absolutely “appear” to be true. Unfortunately there is an underlying psychological principle that goes like this: Human being do not do anything without some level of a pay-off. Sometimes it's obvious often it is not. The pay-off is usually emotional and therefore doesn't make rational sense. Dig deeper my friend: What might you be getting out of that situation that you want? Here's a clue: What ingrained belief does it justify you keeping?Thank you for your open sharing.With gratitude, Dov…
I'm not getting anything out of this situation I create , it really isn't helping me in any way. I'm struggling with finding the belief that is holding me back as well. I feel like it's something in that I'm not old enough to value my time for what I feel it is really worth… when I do consultations, I don't know how much to charge and I often under-value myself. What could I do to help change this? I appreciate you helping Dov 🙂
Like I said Chris,This is not an idea, it's a psychological principle. Dig DEEPer and ask yourself what might this belief you are holding be giving you or proving?Here's a way to move forward…do you know of anyone else around your age whose time is being valued? If you do then it's not about age, it's about the underlying belief you are holding.With gratitude, Dov…
Dov, I've been reading the book and starting to realize more and more that I just have not been READY for the affluence to be mine. I know that there are plenty of people who are my age who's time is valued at where I want my time to be valued so it isn't my age, you are right. I'm working on changing the underlying beliefs as we speak. The exercises you provide in the book “Don't Read This…Unless You Want More Money” seem to be having a profound effect on my feelings towards affluence. I'm excited about the new reality that you are bringing out. The example that really clicked for me was the tuning forks being in resonance. No judgment just accepting and reacting, just like the universe. Powerful stuff man. Thank you so much
Hey Chris, I'm delighted that you are really getting your head and actions around the material…we've only just begun!I saw the post you did about the Law of Resonance on your blog. Attempted to leave a comment 5 times however, kept getting an error message. It's so great that you now understand that the stuff you were running was just some old limited conditioning. Keep spreading the word.With gratitude, Dov…
That's odd that it didn't let you comment. I appreciate you taking the time to comment and read it though! It's unbelievable how much abundance has always been here. I wish I would have met you a few years ago so that I would have found this out when I first got started in business. Oh well, at least I'm learning it now :)I've been telling people about the book and reviewed it on amazon and will be writing a blog post on it relatively soon as well. Hopefully this will spread the word even more for you!Thanks for all the help. I can't wait to keep learning from you, Dov. I appreciate the help so much.
I don’t have money because I am poor .
I thought about that . It hit me kind of where it hurts I think. Well I don’t have money because I am poor . . This is from ome of your books aim not trash even if people around me think that. The belief that I am better than who I think I am , and seeing peers going about there day tells me from a view point that I am in a load of crap. The poor issue come to play here . Poor people have no tendency to find something better in life.